nd. To my young friend faced with the choice between serving humanity and 'marriage:' I made marriage the center of my young life. In this way I TOTALLY FAILED THE WOMAN I MARRIED... AND MYSELF. THAT IS THE WRONG CHOICE... FOR EVERYONE, YET IT IS THE CHOICE WE ARE ALL TAUGHT TO MAKE. HORRIBLE.

nd. To my young friend faced with the choice between serving humanity and 'marriage:'  I made marriage the center of my young life.  In this way I TOTALLY FAILED THE WOMAN I MARRIED... AND MYSELF.  THAT IS THE WRONG CHOICE... FOR EVERYONE, YET IT IS THE CHOICE WE ARE ALL TAUGHT TO MAKE.  HORRIBLE.